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This part of the website is dedicated to the stories of the many dogs in my life.

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Buddy - Swimming

October 18, 2019

Buddy’s happiest place in the world is swimming in water. It was a few months after I adopted Buddy when I found out about his aquatic love. I arrived home from work one day to find the house empty of both humans and dogs. When they all returned my housemates were all excitedly telling me how Buddy had transformed into a happy seal while on a walk by a local canal. They showed me photos and said he turned into the happiest dog in the world and how much of a struggle it was to pull him away. I never took him to the canal myself because he spends a lot of time on my bed and I don’t want a slimy snuggle monster sleeping next to me.

Shortly after that Blake took him to the beach and said he had to tie too leashes together to keep him from swimming out to sea. I always assumed Buddy might have been raised by cats given how well he curls into a ball, licks himself like a cat and enjoys laying on tummies like a cat. Perhaps he was actually raised by seals. Lacking the ability to drive I never took him to the beach to witness him trying to swim back to his blubbery brethren.

I finally saw Buddy in action in the water when all the housemates and dogs and friends of the house went to my housemate Beth’s family property out in the country. On the property there were giant cow troughs, basically big enough for become a miniature play pool for Buddy. He was hesitant about getting into the troth, uncertain, we encouraged him in. He stood for a moment in the slimy water and then made a splash. After the splash his demeanor changed from unsure to utter joy, he proceeded to go around in circles in the troth making splash after splash smiling like he was on the best roller coaster ever. All the human’s sat down and marveled at the sight of pure joy. Buddy’s happiness was infectious, it was like when one person is laughing and another person will laugh, we were all happy because Buddy was so happy. I was then informed the drinking troth automatically fills with water so it is in fact never ending fun, Buddy could play splash splash off into oblivion.

Buddy enjoying some splash splash.

Buddy enjoying some splash splash.

After about half an hour to an hour the sun was starting to set and we still had to wash and dry Buddy off before the country temperature got cold. I sternly tried ordering Buddy out of the troth. He ignored me. So I tried walking off to see if he would follow. I made to about a 100 metres down the hill and started calling for him, he stopped splashing only to yell some noises at me, if I had to compare the noises to anything it would be an adolescent child whining about how they didn’t want to go to school. I went back up the hill. My friends were uncertain if he could get out. I was certain he knew how he was just being a spoilt jerk. Sure enough after another stern ‘Buddy out.’ He hopped out looking like a slimy cow seal dog. My friends woke up early the next morning so they could take him to another drinking troth for a final round of splash splash before we left the property. I was severely hung over\asleep and missed it, I did wake up to Buddy jumping excitedly on my bed covered in slim, licking my face.

Over the course of proceeding months, I kept hearing different stories from my housemates about taking Buddy to the beach or rivers and letting him swim. I still had never seen him swim. I did see him have a failed attempt though. We were walking by a duck pond on a cold late night, I was a bit worried that Buddy might jump into the water but he was behaving himself. Until he heard a duck quack, he promptly belly flopped into the pond. He quickly headed back to land as soon as he realised how cold the water was, he had such a sad face with ears pointed down. The water had betrayed him. I ended up once again sleeping next to a stinky wet dog.

I finally did get to see Buddy swim in a local river. He starts out as ungraceful as a child learning to swim for the first time, lots of frantic splashing and not much motion, he however steadies out to become a graceful cow seal. He lacks consistency with direction however, he zig zags through the water randomly changing direction from upstream to downstream. He seems to prefer upstream though. Maybe he’s swimming to his innately known spawning pool. Buddy ignores all calls to come ashore, if he needs a break, he makes sure to take it on the opposite side of the river from the humans. He comes out to the human side when he is completely exhausted. It still takes a lot of calling for him to actually leave the shore.

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Christmas 2015, we did secret Santa in my household. Blake had gotten me, but instead of buying me a gift he bought Buddy one. A doggy life jacket for when he goes swimming. Whenever my housemates took him for a swim they were always a bit afraid that he might drown. This marvelous gift alleviated their fears and made Buddy’s swimming a lot easier – also longer.

Buddy’s latest swimming exploit was at a friend’s house for a celebration for a beagle named Cody’s birthday. All of Cody’s doggy friends were invited along. Cody also has a pool at his house, Cody’s human entered the pool and as soon as Buddy heard a splash he ran up to the side of the pool and instantly tried getting in. Cody’s human was happy for Buddy to have a swim, and swam he did. Buddy would give any Olympic swimmer a run for their money, endurance wise anyways. He was smashing out lap after lap for the better part of an hour before he hopped out for a break. On his breaks he would sit on the deck and stare at the pool in amazement at the best thing in the world. Over the course of the next 4 hours he would get into the pool, pop up at the side to be lifted out, stare at the pool, get back in for a few more laps and repeat. He also had the other dogs at the party watching and almost cheering him on.

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Jenny sporting her classic rotti smile.

Jenny sporting her classic rotti smile.

Buddy saying goodbye to the pool.

Buddy saying goodbye to the pool.

When I we got home after his laps, he looked at me with the most love I’ve ever seen in his eyes. I felt that this was a little undeserved as I hadn’t actually done anything. Blake drove him over to Cody’s while I was still trying to wake up, Cody’s human let him into the pool. Looking back, I haven’t taken him once for a swim of any kind. It was always the people around us that have always shown him the super fun times.

There are the standard important things that people get told about when caring for a dog, what to feed them, walking them, training them. I think an overlooked aspect is who you surround the dog with, which I think is an important part of a doggy’s enjoyment of life. I get pretty caught up in my own work, which is also during the night time, so Buddy doesn’t get to have all that much fun with me, plenty of cuddles, but no swims or wrestling – I’m not an active person like that. Fortunately, the close friends around me have very little in common with me, and they love showing Buddy a good time. If it wasn’t for the people around me, Buddy wouldn’t be smiling so much. I sometimes think of Buddy before I adopted him, being alone in a cage, wanting someone to cuddle and somewhere to swim. Instead he was trapped, without any comprehension of why he had no one around him. I’m grateful to my friends for going out of their way to make him smile, he’s certainly made up for lost time in the past year.

Shortly after I adopted Buddy, Blake told me that taking in a rescue dog is one of the most rewarding feelings. Initially I thought he meant what he said along the lines of ‘I’ve done a good thing’ kind of rewarding. I’ve realised now that the rewarding feeling is getting to find out about Buddy, all his weird quirks, bowling, skating, snuggling, swimming, his happy pony prance that he does when my father visits, and getting to be his friend. Buddy seems to appreciate every moment he has. Especially the slimy ones. When he’s happy, I’m happy.

If you’re thinking of getting a doggy companion, please consider adopting. There are other Buddys out there (especially given that Buddy is probably the no.1 generic rescue dog name). They don’t know why they’re in a cage without anyone. Perhaps you could surround them with wonderful people. Maybe you could be the person to take her/him for their first swim. I hope you do.

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Buddy - An Introduction

October 15, 2019

This is Buddy. I always feel weird saying he’s my dog, I don’t think that being responsible for another person/animal makes one the owner of the dependent. Then again if I say ‘my friend’ I’m referring to the mutual relationship with the friend. So I’ll say he’s my friend that I look after.

A lot of these posts will be about Buddy because he is an important part of my life and happiness so I’ll start from the beginning.

Buddy a few days after adoption.

Buddy a few days after adoption.

Buddy came into my life back in 2014 around September. My best friend Blake (his name will pop up a lot in these posts) and I were drinking on a weekend, at the time he was working at a doggy day care place that also looked after rescue dogs. I have never had my own dog before, but I had been toying with the idea of getting a dog for the past few years ever since I took care of Blake’s German Shepard named ‘Bomber’ for a brief period of time. But I never made a solid commitment to search for my own pup to share my life with. Blake informed me that he had found the perfect dog for me, a lovable Bull Arab who was up for adoption, that knew how to give hugs and had the same temperament as Bomber – Bomber is one of that loveliest dogs a person could ever meet by the way, not a mean bone in his body.

Blake made Buddy sound like one of the best dogs ever, mixed with the fact that I also have a high respect for Blake’s opinion resulted in me harassing my father (whom I was living with at the time) that we have to go adopt this dog named Buddy (who I really knew nothing about) on Monday. My father initially said no due to the fact that I was leaving for Montreal for the first time in 2-3 weeks, I responded with pleas of how he is the best dog ever and he will be gone by the time I get back from Montreal (my stay there was only for 2 weeks). My father being the pinnacle of human niceness that he is, gave in and we went to adopt Buddy.

At the doggy day care place I asked for Buddy and the owner\manager lady gave me Buddy’s ‘favourite toy’ – a big pink ball with a handle – and let me take Buddy to the nearby park to have a little meet and greet. We got to the park, Buddy gave me no hugs, he didn’t give two shits about his ‘favourite toy’, and he ran off from me almost immediately. Fortunately, the park had a closed gate around it. He did eventually respond to my father calling for him and he did give my dad quite a few hugs. Buddy didn’t give a shit about me. Buddy also left hair all over me, being a short haired white dog that molts hair like rain in a hurricane is kinda annoying considering my entire wardrobe is black.

We took Buddy back to the doggy place they asked me how it went and I responded ‘I love him’, I have never said I love something so insincerely in all my life. I didn’t love him. I didn’t feel anything for him at all. I adopted him anyways. It takes me a long time to warm up to anything so I figured I just needed more time with him.

Buddy and me shortly after adoption.

Buddy and me shortly after adoption.

In the car ride home I noticed myself saturated by his hair. I said to myself ‘I’m stuck with him, it’s just hair, accept it’. I stopped caring about having something as trivial as dog hair on me right then and there and have since never understood why people get bothered by dog hair. When we got home, Buddy made himself comfortable on my bed then pretty much slept for 3 days straight.

Although Buddy had a lovely temperament with humans he would often try and fighter Bomber when they were around the same area. Usually when there were lots of people around. I was a little put off with having a giant vicious dog that wanted to fight things because I am a complete pussy and have no clue how to handle such a situation. Blake on the other hand has lots of experience with big dogs trying to fight each other and how to stop it. Bomber is also incredibly gentle (unless provoked) and very obedient so the combination of Blakey and Bomber made for a great sensei with me learning how to manage Buddy. Blake said the training would consist of ‘showing Buddy that life isn’t about fighting anymore, it’s about relaxing, enjoying cuddles and getting fat’.

After returning from Montreal I found that Buddy and my dad had bonded quite well, Buddy seemed to prefer my father over me. Also shortly after returning from Montreal I moved into the house that Blake, Bomber and my friends Ash, Luke, Pip and Manny were living in. What followed was months of learning how to look after a dog in a party house with random people visiting, Buddy eating things he isn’t meant to, Buddy trying to fight Bomber, managing people and their interactions with Buddy and housemates not liking having Buddy around. It was initially a little stressful in regards to looking out for Buddies health. Buddy being the adorable charmer that he is eventually won everyone over. However, at the time I still hadn’t really bonded with Buddy.

Buddy and me are opposites. He is a stinky bulldozing garbage monster that loves cuddling and being playful silly. I’m very reserved, clean, like my personal space and I imagine it would be painfully awkward to see me try to play with Buddy when he is in the mood for a wrestle. I really didn’t give him any affection and the most we would cuddle is when I would pass out drunk and wake up to Buddy sleeping on my pillow next to me. He actually knew when I was drunk and would climb onto the bed after I had passed out and cuddle me in my sleep.

Buddy wearing Manny’s shirt.

Buddy wearing Manny’s shirt.

I decided maybe I should find Buddy someone who would love him rather than him being stuck with a cold jerk like myself. I mentioned this to my housemates and most were accepting and could tell that I wasn’t bonding with him. I suppose the one thing me and Buddy have in common is how transparent we are. Manny (who I also consider a best friend) got upset at the prospect of Buddy not being in the household. He loved Buddy. We had Bomber, but Bomber only loves Blake and doesn’t interact with people, Buddy goes were the cuddles and fun is and is indiscriminate with who he gets it from. Manny pleaded that I not get rid of Buddy and that he can be the house dog that everyone would look after and how he looks forward to seeing Buddy every time he gets home from work. I had never seen this side of Manny before. I decided that Buddy is a fun guy to have around. I started to think of him as a friend that just needed a place to crash, so he can stay with me, he never did become the house dog though.

I’ll always be indebted to Manny for what he said.

A short while after that I was working and like Manny, I found myself being excited to see him when I got home. Buddy was also slowly gaining bed privileges. I would allow him to watch movies with me and sleep on my bed some nights. In summer it was like sleeping next to a fireball, he would want to be as close to me as possible, I would move away due to said fireballness, then Buddy would move closer to me again. Before I knew it, I would nearly be off the bed as he held dominance.

Finally, it happened. Buddy had been in my life for about 4-5 months at the time, and I said ‘I love you Buddy’ as we were cuddling on my bed. This time with full sincerity. I was shocked that it had slipped out. I didn’t intend to say it, but I did, and it was true. I later informed Blake who triumphantly laughed ‘Yes! Garbage dog wins!’. Buddy is an unstoppable force of attrition when it comes to something he wants. He wants on the bed, he’s going to get on the bed sooner or later. He want’s what you’re eating, he will stare at you until your mind cracks and you give it to him. That being said he is always a gentleman, he is patient and rarely forceful. At least to me.

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A week later I took Buddy to the vet to book a surgery to remove a growth in his mouth. One of Buddy’s greatest joys is eating. The grow in his mouth would bleed when he ate bones, he would then scratch the shit out of his face due to the irritation of it. I wanted to get the growth removed so he could enjoy munching on bones, quality of life stuff. The vet informed me that I shouldn’t really worry about the growth in his mouth so much as all the skin cancer around his tummy. I’ve never seen a dog enjoy sunbaking as much as Buddy, this vice of his had ramifications. He was covered in lumps, I just assumed he was naturally lumpy. The vet said that he would most likely have multiple surgeries over his life but more lumps would always grow back and eventually they would say enough is enough.

Buddy has had full bed privileges since. He’s actually happily napping away on my bed as I’ve been writing this.

Discovering more and more of Buddy’s personality over the year that I’ve had him has been a joy. I glossed over some of his personality in this writing but I will share more stories and aspects of him in future posts. I love him. When a person loves something they want to share that something with the world.

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